Joined: 12 Apr 2009 Last Visit: 18 Oct 2014 23:34 Posts: 1234 Location: Mainly Sakhalin Island (Russian Far East)
Gender: Male
Status: Married
Her/His Country: Russia/UK
RW_here_since: She lives in Russia
Times_to_FSU: Ya ne mogu soschitatʹ
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 - Mistake 1. Sending money.
Never send money for a visa to a woman who says she can get a visa. From all the men that I have known, over the years, that have send money, not one foreign woman ever got a visa or actually travelled to meet him.
Asking for money upfront for a visa from someone who she has never met is an almost sure sign of a scammer. An honest FSU woman, who is looking to find a partner to share life together will never ask a man for money, especially before meeting him. Even after meeting her once or twice, most FSU women don't ask for any financial help ... but of course it is customary and expected that you, the man, should cover her expenses.
You can offer to reimburse her for the cost of the visa when she arrives to visit you If you feel compelled to buy her a flight ticket then book the ticket yourself and then all you have to do is send her the e-ticket confirmation.
 Women who are scamming you will object to this and these are Major Warning signs - Red flags.
- Mistake 2. Staying at home.
This is a huge mistake that many men, who are looking for a partner, make. There are plenty of keyboard Romeos around and most of these men that write to women will never get on an aeroplane and go to visit the lady that they are corresponding with. Of course women get very tired writing to men that never come, so very soon become weary and loose interest. You must not forget the fact that English is their second language and for them writing long letters is a huge effort.
A good friend of mine corresponded with a woman who had received hundreds of letters and out of all the men that she had communicated with, he was the only one that ever bothered to get on an aeroplane and travelled to meet her. They have now been married for a long time.
A short period of correspondence is fine to start getting to know someone, but it's not good if it goes on for long time. Women get tired very soon and get the impression that you never plan to meet them, so you may miss the chance of finding the right woman for you!
It is always advisable to visit her first, in her own environment, as soon as possible! Knowledge of her personal circumstances, first hand, is invaluable if you want to be successful in your endeavour!
Procrastination is very likely to cost you. While you delay, someone else may travel and close the deal with the woman that could have been your soul mate. Stop making excuses and just go!
It does not matter how good looking, charming or rich you are! If you never take the essential step to get on an aeroplane to meet the lady, then you do not stand a chance.
- Mistake 3. Ignoring the signs.
Most women that you will meet will be sincere, but of course there will be a few that will not. Those who are not sincere usually are quite aggressive, manipulative and demanding!
Warning signs.
- If after a couple of dates, she does not hold your hand in public or show signs of affection, it might be a bad sign.
- If a woman says she does not have any free time to meet you and make excuses that she is very busy, after you made the long trip to meet her, it is also a bad sign. A woman that really likes you she will always make time for you.
- A woman who really likes you will show you plenty of affection in private and in public.
Be aware:
- Loosing her phone or loosing her jewellery (you are expected to replace the items that she lost).
- If she asks you to take her shopping, it is also a warning sign of a scam.
No sincere women would ever suggest taking her shopping after only few dates. - Asking for money is also an obvious problem.
 If you are asked for money or you are given a hard luck story, run like the wind - Red flags
So......
- Don’t try to explain away her misbehaviour (A fool and his money are easily parted).
- It is quite easy to ignore these signs because the girl is very hot and the man does not want to lose her. Think with your big head and not the small one!
- Don't forget there are plenty of beautiful women available, just move on to the next woman if you see the warning signs.
Positive signs.
 There are many positive signs to look for:
- She will want to spend all her free time with you.
- She will introduce you to her family.
- She will invite you to her home for dinner.
- She will make sure you don't waste money when buying things.
- If she is local and you are unsure of the cost of something, a good woman will make sure you don't get over charged for things in her country.
- She calls to make sure you got safe back to your accommodation.
- She may even buy you little gifts.
- Mistake 4. Trying to buy love.
Do not try to impress women by buying them things and spending a lot of money on them. Once you start this you will never know if she likes you or just the money you have. Keep gifts simple and small. Flowers are always good present but remember always buy an odd number of them.
- Mistake 5. Drinking to excess.
Don't get drunk on a date; keep the drinking to a minimum. The last thing a Russian woman wants to meet is another alcoholic or drunk. Alcoholism is a big problem in Russia and Ukraine. Most women in Russian and Ukraine, by the time they are 21, have met more than their fair share of alcoholics. If they see you getting drunk, they might just label you as another alcoholic.
- Mistake 6. Not keeping the eye on the ball
So many men come with good intentions and a set of priorities, they are looking for a marriage minded, family orientated woman, and so on. Then they meet a super hot 18-year-old girl and all the priorities go out the window. They totally forget they have travelled such a great distance to look for a wife. At the end of the trip, they have had a great time but they leave alone. If it was your intention to find a wife then try to remember why travelled to a foreign land.
Never send money or anything that can be converted into money to someone that you have not met in person. ![pc-chat [pcchat.gif]](./images/smilies/pcchat.gif)
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